You get messages like this:

hi it is me *** i saw ur profiles and was hopeing u had the same id here., i am *** a crtified welder a professinal painter and a part time massussei, was hopeing we could chat soem times…i took the test and it said we were a exceptional perfect match, i just hope u agree,, urs awaiting *** p.s. i loved the pics, u r sooo cool funny and crazy out going, , i really hope this gets to u so we can talk, be friends and maybe a lot more..