What teachers make

A friend of mine just sent this to me, and it reminded me of something I wanted to post about anyway…

WHAT TEACHERS MAKE

The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life. One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education. He argued, “What’s a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best option in life was to become a teacher?”

He reminded the other dinner guests what they say about teachers: “Those who can, do. Those who can’t, teach.”

To stress his point he said to another guest; “You’re a teacher, Susan. Be honest. What do you make?”

Susan, who had a reputation for honesty and frankness replied, “You want to know what I make?

“I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could. I make a C+ feel like the winner of the Congressional Medal of Honor. I make kids sit through 40 minutes of study hall in absolute silence.

“You want to know what I make?

I make kids wonder.

I make them question.

I make them criticize.

I make them apologize and mean it.

I make them write.

I make them read, read, read.

I make them show all their work in math and perfect their final drafts in English.

I make them understand that if you have the brains, and follow your heart, and if someone ever tries to judge you by what you make, you must pay no attention because they just didn’t learn.”

Susan paused and then continued. “You want to know what I make? ‘I MAKE A DIFFERENCE.’ What do you make?”

When I was in fifth grade, I had a teacher that I absolutely adored. She was interesting and fun and everything that a great fifth grade teacher should be. One day, I got some catalogs in the mail that were clearly “teacher” material. I brought them in to show my teacher.

“Maybe it means I’m supposed to be a teacher when I grow up,” I beamed.

She laughed. “You’re too smart to be a teacher.”

And that little throwaway comment might have squashed a dream…might have…but instead, it just put it on hold.

After I graduated from college with my communication arts degree, I went back home and worked for a daily paper. I liked being a reporter okay, but I never felt like I belonged there. I never felt like it was what I was *supposed* to be doing. I didn’t have the drive, the hunger. I was (and still am, I think) a good writer, but never a great journalist. I just didn’t have it in me.

One day, when I was in the high school, I bumped into my most favorite teacher ever, Mrs. L. She asked me what I was doing and what my plans were, and I told her that I was thinking about back to school for teaching certification.

“Oh, you’d make a wonderful teacher,” she said.

So thank you, Mrs. L, for being a wonderful teacher and a wonderful friend. Thank you for making a difference.

Pure nerd ;)

Until I get into the full swing of things this lovely Monday morning, here’s a quiz, courtesy of Jen(nifer)

Pure Nerd
73 % Nerd, 47% Geek, 34% Dork
For The Record:A Nerd is someone who is passionate about learning/being smart/academia.

A Geek is someone who is passionate about some particular area or subject, often an obscure or difficult one.

A Dork is someone who has difficulty with common social expectations/interactions.

You scored better than half in Nerd, earning you the title of: Pure Nerd.

The times, they are a-changing. It used to be that being exceptionally smart led to being unpopular, which would ultimately lead to picking up all of the traits and tendences associated with the “dork.” No longer.

Being smart isn’t as socially crippling as it once was, and even more so as you get older: eventually being a Pure Nerd will likely be replaced with the following label: Purely Successful.

Congratulations!

THE NERD? GEEK? OR DORK? TEST

My test tracked 3 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

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You scored higher than 81% on nerdiness
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You scored higher than 58% on geekosity
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You scored higher than 61% on dork points
Link: The Nerd? Geek? or Dork? Test written by donathos on Ok Cupid

Because I can never resist a tag

7 things…via Jen(nifer)

Things I plan to do before I die:
Go skydiving
Visit Italy
Pay off my student loans
Get a full-time job
Write (and hopefully publish!) a novel
Learn American Sign Language
Get married

7 Things I can do:
Teach
Write
Love
Make a mean apple pie
And also fantastic meatballs
Calligraphy
Type with my fingers on the right keys

7 Things I cannot do:
Save money (although I might be able to do this, should I ever actually have money)
Drive a standard
Speak a foreign language
Play an instrument
Sew
Fly an airplane
Juggle

7 Things that attract me to the opposite sex:
Humor/wit
Intelligence
Passion
Eyes (as in, �I like his eyes,� not �He has eyes.� I�ve been frequently, though not exclusively, attracted to guys with blue eyes)
A great smile
A way with words
Cuddle potential

7 Things I say most often:
Ew.
Oh, for the love of God.
Bite me. (said most often under my breath, in the car, or to inanimate objects not cooperating with me)
You do not need to be fed. (to Jen�s cats)
You have got to be kidding me.
I don�t care.
Good morning, my name is Ms N. Your assignment is on the board. (well, I�ll be saying that again very soon.)

7 Celebrity crushes:
Ewan McGregor
Jon Bon Jovi
Johnny Rzeznik
John Cusack
Victor Garber
Michael Vartan
The entire male cast of Lost

Odd thing about me…I tend to have crushes on characters more so than actors…Lloyd Dobbler. Michael Vaughn. The teacher in Never Been Kissed. Jack Bristow…you see what I mean. 😉

eta Lloyd GOBBLER? oops! 🙂

7 People I Want To Do This:
Squeak
Stephanie
Caoimhe
Hilary
annabel lee
Stationery Queen
And I’ll leave the last one open to anyone/everyone. 🙂

A whole year? Already? :)

When the world takes you down
you can always depend on me now
and I’ll forever be around
to tell you I need you…

Something True, Einstein’s Sister

One year ago today, my life was changed forever.

Of course, I didn’t completely know that at the time. 😉 That night, meeting Rand in person for the first time for drinks and darts at Brew Pub, I couldn’t have known how I’d feel today.

I knew he was interesting, funny and smart. I knew he was someone I would want to have in my life. I knew that I wanted to see him again.

A week later, after our second date, I wrote about our meeting in my journal.

He hugged me good night, and I left smiling.

I have to agree with one of his aunts, whom I just met the other night…he gives the best hugs. Just one of the many, many things I adore about him. Here are a few more…

I love his intelligence, his humor, his wit.

I love his passion for the people and things he cares deeply about. I love listening to him “nerd out” about music, film, religion, comic books…etc…

I love his singing voice.

I love his kindness, his generosity, his open-mindedness.

I love his friends and family.

I love the way he takes care of me, without ever making me feel like I need to be “taken care of.”

I love his eyes, and the way those eyes look at me.

I love the way he “gets” me…whenever he’s recommended a book, a movie, a TV show (on DVD, of course!) to me, I’ve not once been disappointed.

I love his silly, playful side.

I love the calming effect he has on me.

I love the way he truly appreciates me.

I love all of these things, and so, so much more, and I am so thankful that he is in my life.

Honoring a soldier

Tuesday night, I had the opportunity to attend a dinner honoring Rand’s brother David. David was awarded New York State’s Consipicous Service Cross for his service in Iraq.

There were news cameras everywhere. All of the Buffalo and Rochester stations came out to cover it. The best Buffalo coverage was, by far, on Channel 2. (Go here to see the report)

I’ve only recently had the opportunity to get to know David, but it’s difficult for me to reconcile the warm and incredibly funny man that I’ve met with the soldier Time magazine wrote about back in November.

Thomas has a wonderful post up at his blog, talking about David. He’s also posted the article that appeared in yesterday’s Buffalo News.

Oh, and a side note about the dinner…David’s 5-year-old son could not have been cuter. It was like he received special instruction on how to be cute on TV. Adorable. 😉

The secret life of bees

No, this isn’t a book post.

Bees.

I’ve written before about how much I hate bees. Loathe them. Terrified of them.

I’m aware that no one likes bees. No one has ever gotten stung and said, “Hey, that’s fun!” But my fear borders on the ridiculous.

And the other night, I was talking to Rand about my fear of needles.

I hate needles, too. Once, when I was a reporter back home, I was doing a story on a local doctor who was practicing acupuncture. He invited me to come and watch a procedure, and I was fine. Fine. Until suddenly, I apparently passed out. I was standing there, taking photos of the acupuncture, and then I was sitting in a chair with a nurse beside me whipping out the smelling salts.

The first time I had an IV inserted was when I was 23 or so, when I was having my wisdom teeth removed. I was actually in tears when the anesthesiologist came in, because I was afraid of the big, scary needle…

Point? For the first time in my life, I connected these two fears.

“Bees are like flying needles,” I exclaimed.

So there ya go.

Tired and hot

Ugh.

I have to go back for day #2 of jury selection tomorrow. Not fun. But at least it’s air conditioned.

There was an obnoxious heavily-accented old woman there today who got to go home when she whined about her health problems. Aren’t you supposed to put that on the questionnaire they send you in the mail? Ugh. She was *really* vocal about her displeasure in the courtroom. Whispering, sort of, but in that loud annoying way. I can’t believe the judge didn’t say anything to her. Whine whine whine, my hip, my knees, etc.

I’m still about halfway through Solitude, and so far…ummm…I’m kinda bored. Well, I wasn’t bored for a while, but now I’m bored and sort of stuck. Encourage me. 🙂

I had a lovely visit in PA, first with my parents on Friday, and then with my friends on Saturday. My friends Jen and Mike got married a couple of weeks ago, in a small family ceremony, and had a picnic celebration on Saturday. It was really nice to see everyone, and they all got to meet Rand. Not that we had much of a chance to hang out and talk to people. 🙂


Jen and Mike


Me and Rand
(is it me, or do I always look slightly sleepy in these photos with Rand? 😉 )


The girls

We came back to Buffalo late Saturday, because Rand’s brother was speaking at a church service on Sunday morning. (more thoughts on the service itself later…) One interesting point…Rand’s brother mentioned the 27th Psalm in his address. Heehee. 🙂

No job news. The interview on Friday went fine. I might have a very, very short term temp assignment, unless I get picked for this jury. *grumble*

I know there’s a lot more that I want to say, but it’s hot.

On love…

Lately, I’ve been reminded of a Clint Black song that came out back in 2001 called Something That We Do. I’ve always thought it was a terribly romantic song…he wrote it for his wife, about their marriage and their relationship, and to me, it’s a perfect example of what it means to have a mature loving relationship.

We help to make each other all that we can be
Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently
The way we work together is what sets our love apart
So closely that you can’t tell where I end and where you start

I think that a lot of the time, when we think of love, we think of that thrilling rush we feel the first time. Maybe that’s why first loves are so hard to get over. We express our feelings in terms of need. We identify this person as “completing” us…which of course assumes that we were unfinished in the first place and in need of completion. Romantic, yes, but maybe not the healthiest of feelings.

I felt that way with K, and when we broke up, I was sure I would never find it again…and in a way, I was right, because it never feels quite like it did that first time. But on the other hand, what we feel that second or third time around is in some ways better. It’s about knowing you have a full and complete life on your own, but wanting someone to share it with. It’s about having a true partnership. It’s about your mutual respect and desire for the other person. And most of all, it’s realizing that love is more than an abstract emotion.

It’s a verb.

Teach your children well

Let’s all hope it was the right choice. 🙂 The more I think about it, the more excited I am about (almost) having my own classroom!

Love in my tummy

So yes, Valentine’s Day was simply lovely…Rand and I had dinner at Rue Franklin. We started with some appetizers…mine was a tasty pasta dish with rabbit (yes, rabbit) and bacon, and about a pound of butter. He had an arugala salad and also some sea scallops (I’m almost sold on sea scallops…this is the second time I’ve tried his, and they were quite yummy…). For dinner, we both had the filet mignon, which was absolute perfection. I had a chocolate raspberry truffle tort for dessert. Mmmm…

*my apologies to my dear roommie for not sharing details, but the first time I saw her afterwards, she was half sleeping, and so I just gave her the bare-bones description!*

Our waiter was someone I actually recognized…a couple of years ago, Jen and I went to karaoke at the Tudor Lounge and spent most of the night talking to this guy. He went up and simply rocked “Rock the Casbah.”

“I think I know our waiter,” I told Rand.

Before we left, I stopped him and asked if he’d ever done karaoke at the Tudor Lounge. He got a sheepish grin on his face and said “Yeah.”

“Okay, that’s how I know you,” I said. Hee!

After we’d ordered our meal, Rand asked me if I noticed how the wait staff is trained to stroke the man’s ego…I hadn’t. “When you ordered,” he told me, “he just kind of nodded and said okay. But when I ordered, it was ‘Oh, yes, excellent choice sir.”

I did notice this when we ordered our dessert. Rand ordered fruit sorbet, followed up by “Yes, a perfect way to finish off.” Heh. Interesting things that I don’t notice…probably because I don’t do much fine dining. 😉

I also received a beautiful bouquet of roses.

I gave Rand this adorable little book:

And ordered a DVD that I knew he wanted. Unfortunately, the DVD hasn’t come in yet, so he got an IOU.

I also got him the “Romance” edition of magnetic poetry. To make it a little extra-special, I bought a magnetic dry erase board and wrote a little poem for him. It was a big hit. (Maybe I can get him to take a photo of it for me?) 🙂

(aside…how cool is magnetic poetry? and this? I didn’t even know there was such a thing!)

I hope everyone had a pleasant day!

More on my adventures in substitute teaching later…